The one & only: Jordan Peterson Esq would be able to answer or decipher this complex paradox..
However, dont touch this topic as hardliners are waiting for every opportunity to ban alcohol or for that matter anything that looks, feels or walks like "western eshtyle".
Many leaders in India want to/have ban/banned English as a primary language while their children are/were studying in prominent English schools.
Such politicians do nothing to help the society to prosper and much less the country. But they win, election after election and I dont know why "you can fool all the people ..." maxim makes no sense in India.
The problem is with men, not alcohol. There are many women who consume alcohol. They are not beating up children. In their drunken state perhaps all the misogyny men soak in their lives pours out.