Every child is in different environment of their parents. Only when they come to a school they get a feeling of "peer group" effect. playing time in out of house again enriches "others effect " All ideal sayings are OK to read but what is possible in effect depends on "Family's situation" like tha saying " what you Eat/Think/Act defines what You are! One has to move with "Times " Today 'NxtGen need to become familar with AI-ML-Coding etc all requiring Every NxtGen become "fluent" with Maths problem solving!
... so efforts required by Parents/Teachers/ elders is to "facilitate" them to become Self- Learners!