Every years during the Hindu month of Karthik, women across large parts of North India celebrate Karwa Chauth, fasting from sunrise to sunset to pray for the wellbeing of their husbands. And every year, the festival evokes heated debates on whether the ritual is sexist and regressive.
While other Hindu festivals like Navratri, Teej, Shiv Ratri, Janmashtami and Ram Navmi also involve ritual fasting, Karwa Chauth – which is being celebrated on Wednesday – receives the most flak: the ritual mandates that the married women in a house stay hungry, while their husbands eat specially prepared food.
What is #KarwaChauth? It's when Indian women fast for the long lives of Indian men, so those sexist men can then make them fast again.
— lindsay pereira (@lindsaypereira) October 19, 2016
I declare the annual Karwa chauth vs Hijab debate open.
— Gabbbar (@GabbbarSingh) October 19, 2016
Karwa Chauth warriors have come out of their graves. Enjoy the day.
— Trendulkar (@Trendulkar) October 19, 2016
According to Hindu mythology, the ritual began with princess Veeravati, who married a king. One day, she was tricked by her brothers into breaking the fast she held for her husband too early, as a result of which the king died.
As she rushed to her husband's side, Veeravati is supposed to have run into the goddess Parvati, and her consort Shiva, who told her fasting on Karwa Chauth would bring her dead husband back. The tale ended with Veeravati's husband returning from the afterlife.
Although there are several different rituals to break fasts during Karwa Chauth, the consistent and most Bollywood-friendly tradition involves women looking at their husbands through a sieve before taking their first sip of water to signal the end of their fast.
Of late, in an effort to break stereotypes surrounding the ritual, men have begun to fast for their wives on Karwa Chauth too. This isn't enough to mollify Karwa Chauth critics however, who ask – why fast at all? How can abstaining from food and water enhance a husband's life?
Someone intelligent came up with "You also fast for her if she is fasting for you" instead of "How about neither of you fast?" #KarwaChauth
— Pranav (@pranavsapra) October 19, 2016
It you believe in science, observe #KarwaChauth with her.
— चार लोग (@WoCharLog) October 19, 2016
Results are better than shopping, long drives and candle light dinners.
On Wednesday, celebrities took to Twitter to wish followers who were undertaking the fast. Some decided to use this opportunity to plug brands they endorsed.
To all the husbands who are fasting for and with their wives today...well done! #KarwaChauth #2016 #OnlyWorksBothWays
— VISHAL DADLANI (@VishalDadlani) October 19, 2016
This #KarwaChauth, celebrate the bond of your marriage with the special #SamriddhiOffer @Asmi_Diamonds and enjoy up to 100% value back.
— Nargis (@NargisFakhri) October 19, 2016
This year, Twitter users also pointed out the true beneficiaries of the Karwa Chauth tradition – Bollywood, jewellery stores, and mehendi sellers.
More than beliefs& tradition, I think #KarwaChauth is something popularised by Yash chopra- Sajay Leela Bhansali films& Ekta Kapoor serials
— Meenakshi Kandwal (@MusafirMinakshi) October 19, 2016
I think the true believers in Karwa Chauth are the mehendi walas and parlour folks.
— Pallavi (@PolyesterPalla) October 19, 2016
#KarwaChauth seems to be like life insurance scheme for Indian women...they have to pay premium every year for long life of husband😂😂😂
— Nami (@Life__is_lol) October 19, 2016