In the world of social media, memes frequently come and go, but one internet creation has had surprising longevity. The distracted boyfriend meme, which first surfaced sometime around January 2017 before becoming an internet sensation in August last year, continues to pop up every now and then. The meme shows a couple walking down the streets of Spain, with the man openly ogling at another woman. Since then, several social media users have been in turn perplexed and fascinated by this love triangle, offering a range of theories on why the boyfriend has a wandering eye or urging the woman by his side – presumably, his girlfriend – to walk away.
On Monday, Twitter user Ernie Smith expanded the backstory further by delving into the history of the woman. He traced a fascinating if somewhat limited character arc. The woman, evidently a model, surprises easily and has a penchant for being shocked in various situations.
Know the girl on the right? I have something to show you, guys. pic.twitter.com/mnrSYaVANH
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
She's easily shocked when looking at screens. pic.twitter.com/uEjlVAgflE
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
I mean, really shocked. pic.twitter.com/uCoCqsCFtx
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
Absolutely in disbelief. pic.twitter.com/hNgatM3lOa
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
Her friends are shocked, too. pic.twitter.com/oGL2fPbYsh
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
She's even shocked when using a laptop. pic.twitter.com/Yq4liF0Ygh
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
And thing are shocking even when she's with her friend. pic.twitter.com/CVKsVpMzy8
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
She's even shocked when wearing a blue shirt. But not as shocked as she usually is. pic.twitter.com/e6hR2IF5pr
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
Especially when wearing glasses. pic.twitter.com/gGthB92koY
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
Or reading a letter, while still in front of a screen. pic.twitter.com/Uy7eWRpqn2
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
Smith continues to trace the woman’s dramatic relationship with screens for several more photographs until he finds that she remains shocked even in the absence of one.
Or, even without a phone at all. pic.twitter.com/qEJAN0FXat
— Ernie Smith (@ShortFormErnie) June 25, 2018
It turns out that in November last year, Twitter user Andrew J Abernathy had done some extensive digging to find out what happened to the couple after that infamous photograph. He showed that the two went on to have several more dramatic experiences together (which, to some extent, might explain her fear of phones).
After being blatantly disrespected by her bf on the streets, it looks like she is also having trouble with homework. pic.twitter.com/fi0gsecpgQ
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
Looks like she didn't learn her lesson and they're buying something expensive together. pic.twitter.com/BYwIB1NsDV
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
OH NO GIRL THAT'S BAD NEWS. pic.twitter.com/4mRFqVa9C1
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
That man is a deadbeat and you knew it! Now look what happened. pic.twitter.com/jgnZGT7JxG
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
What did I tell you? He gone. pic.twitter.com/z6C0Lh0D6w
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
Things aren't looking up for her right now. pic.twitter.com/Mg4ei6Dltv
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
Why are you surprised?!?! The man showed you what he was! pic.twitter.com/8CjXtH9WYE
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
You better not take him back. pic.twitter.com/ct0n0QmptQ
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
WHAT COULD HAVE TURNED THE TABLES?! pic.twitter.com/CavujTi401
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
By the way, I'm not kidding here. There are 40+ pages of these two living their best/worst lives together. pic.twitter.com/MOyt5tpvTB
— Andrew J Abernathy (@ajabernathy) November 20, 2017
These photographs are all by Spanish photographer Antonio Guillem, who uses these two models (their stage names are Mario and Laura) for most of his work, which he sells to stock photograph agencies. The distracted boyfriend meme was from an entire series dedicated to infidelity (which explains why the girlfriend keeps catching the man red-handed but sticks with him regardless) and was originally captioned “Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl”.
“We decided to take a few risks, planning a session representing the infidelity concept in relationships in a playful and fun way,” Guillem told Wired last year.
He told Guardian that he didn’t know what a meme was until one of his photographs blew up on the internet. “The models discovered the meme on social media and they told me about it,” he added. “None of us could imagine the media repercussion that it has reached right now.”
Here are some popular distracted boyfriend memes from last year. The theme has been used to depict everything from world history to economics to everyday challenges.
— Distracted Boyfriend (@DistractedBoyfd) August 26, 2017
these aren't even jokes this is deadass what happened pic.twitter.com/L15F8Ek9yC
— gorgeous hag (@annebcleyn) August 22, 2017
— Distracted Boyfriend (@DistractedBoyfd) August 26, 2017
Meanwhile, other Twitter users have pointed out that the distracted boyfriend meme may have deep historical roots. Earlier this month, several social media users pointed out that the meme bears an uncanny resemblance to a photograph from Charlie Chaplin’s 1922 film Pay Day.
Omg. pic.twitter.com/oeRO4FBVmt
— Diana (@BrukDiana) June 11, 2018
Fact check website Snopes clarified that it is not known if the creators of the meme knew of this still from Pay Day and there is nothing to suggest they do as “the moment depicted in these images isn’t exactly novel”.