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The top five Reel stories of last week

How Shashi Kapoor became the first Indian crossover star, and Aziz Mian’s incredible 115 minute-long qawaali.

It’s time to press rewind on the last seven days.

What should the new Bollywood film be called? ‘Underdog’, ‘balcony’, or ‘new-age mainstream’?

Recent releases such as ‘Piku’, Neerja’ and ‘Kapoor & Sons’ cannot be described as typical Bollywood anymore. Read more here.

Have you heard the longest qawaali ever sung?

In the first of our new series, meet Aziz Mian, who clocked his performance at 115 minutes. Read more here.

Most Pakistani Hindu filmmakers fled after 1947, but not JC Anand

The distributor and producer stayed back to emerge as one of the prime movers of the Pakistani film industry. Read more here.

The debate over whether Elsa from ‘Frozen’ is gay is far more complex than we realise

The campaign to introduce queer characters in Disney films is a microcosm of the greater churn convulsing Hollywood. Read more here.

How Shashi Kapoor became the first Indian crossover star and other stories

A new biography retraces the Kapoor scion’s fascinating adventures, on and off the screen. Read more here.

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From answering every homework question to killing every monster under the bed, from soothing every wound with care to crushing anxiety by just the sound of their voice - parents understandably seemed like invincible, know-it-all superheroes all our childhood. It’s no wonder then that reality hits all of a sudden, the first time a parent falls and suffers a slip disc, or wears a thick pair of spectacles to read a restaurant menu - our parents are growing old, and older. It’s a slow process as our parents turn from superheroes to...human.

And just as slow to evolve are the dynamics of our relationship with them. Once upon a time, a peck on the cheek was a frequent ritual. As were handmade birthday cards every year from the artistically inclined, or declaring parents as ‘My Hero’ in school essays. Every parent-child duo could boast of an affectionate ritual - movie nights, cooking Sundays, reading favourite books together etc. The changed dynamic is indeed the most visible in the way we express our affection.

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