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The top five Reel stories of last week

Everything the ‘Mohenjo Daro’ trailer got wrong, and the inspirations behind rain songs in Hindi cinema.

It’s time to press rewind on the last seven days.

The ‘Deep Jele Jai’ versus ‘Khamoshi’ non-debate: the Bengali original beats the Hindi remake

Asit Sen’s reworking of his Bengali hit fails to capture the incandescence of the original. Read more here.

What do lyricists look for in songs about the rains?

Monsoon is the most celebrated season in Hindi film music. Read more here.

From horses to headgear, everything the ‘Mohenjo Daro’ trailer has got wrong.

A teaser of Ashutosh Gowariker’s period drama, starring Hrithik Roshan and Pooja Hegde, is riddled with inaccuracies about the Indus Valley Civilisation. Read more here.

A scene-stealing encounter with the heart-stopping actor Shashi Kapoor

A flashback to the day when a school teacher decided to go and meet the Hindi movie star. Read more here.

The big lesson from Karan Johar’s timely essay: actions shut down trolls faster than words

The producer’s response to abusive messages on his Twitter timeline is both surprising and enlightening. Read more here.

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From answering every homework question to killing every monster under the bed, from soothing every wound with care to crushing anxiety by just the sound of their voice - parents understandably seemed like invincible, know-it-all superheroes all our childhood. It’s no wonder then that reality hits all of a sudden, the first time a parent falls and suffers a slip disc, or wears a thick pair of spectacles to read a restaurant menu - our parents are growing old, and older. It’s a slow process as our parents turn from superheroes to...human.

And just as slow to evolve are the dynamics of our relationship with them. Once upon a time, a peck on the cheek was a frequent ritual. As were handmade birthday cards every year from the artistically inclined, or declaring parents as ‘My Hero’ in school essays. Every parent-child duo could boast of an affectionate ritual - movie nights, cooking Sundays, reading favourite books together etc. The changed dynamic is indeed the most visible in the way we express our affection.

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